my ex's younger sister is 19, but having dated her older sister I wouldn't date her younger sister because i know she would be 80% the same. Always whining about how their in constant pain because they did ballet growing up, always tired for no reason, obsessive compulsive neat freak, likely to cheat, doesn't put out, likely to get fat because they splurge on candy, completley non confident..at least unless they've used you as a stepping stone for their self esteem, completely clueless on some basic relationship knowledge, used to not driving, daddy's girl(although their dad is a very cool dude), not likely to make friends with your friends, resentful, introverted, etc.
this compares to my friend A, who was a marine, and is in perfect shape, does drugs and dates strippers. Friend B is chubby but hilarious, he dates a fat girl who we rarely ever see, but she does put out.
I've had the really long relationship, and then the really long self induced single time.
In statistics we have things called runs. These are occurrences that happen consecutively in a period of time. Then there is frequency, runs that happen on such a regular basis as to be expected. Then there are events, things that happen randomly without any sort of rhyme or reason. My love life could be classified under events. I just want to meet someone that i can have a good run with. Something steady and something good.
i would feel more hurt by Stogi's implications that it could be worse and that he could be theperm, but i know that its all a learning experience and in the end i have nothing but knowledge to gain.