Nintendo making a system that third parties don't want to develop on hardly equates to Sony creating a piss-poor security system for their network that stores personal data of MILLIONS of customers.  You really can't even pretend those two things are in the same category.
I can in the sense that I expected basic developer-relations competence from Nintendo with the N64, GameCube, and Wii, and that's never come.  It reminds me of an old phrase my grandma used to say: "If wishes were fishes, we'd all have a feast" (or something like that).  It's nice to want things, and usually your wishes never come true.  And as doubly interesting and troublesome this whole situation has been, I just want it to be over so I can go back to enjoying the PS3 gaming experience like I had before last week.
I have exactly 0 faith after 3 consoles now that Nintendo will create a console that will satisfy my tastes, I despise Microsoft's 1st party franchises, so that just leaves Sony.  I want to see Sony 
want my business after this and bend over backwards to keep me as a customer.  I'm tired on dwelling on "what happened", because yeah they screwed-up big time.  My financial future is now in jeopardy due to this, but in the end we forget that this was instigated by one of those damned hackers I hate so very much now.  Sony certainly has their share of blame and they could potentially lose my business after this, but I want to see how they learn from this, if they do at all because for me they are the only company left worth investing my gaming dollars in.