We're more in agreement than our critics may believe. I'm glad we had this time to chat, Hillary.
However, comparing the best of the third party releases (yeah lots of ports, but GOOD games got ported too) to the best of Nintendo's releases is problematic. Nintendo's problem is that their games will always out-perform, aesthetics- and sales-wise, anything a third party can cook up (MAJOR EXCEPTION: Rogue Squadron at GC launch).
Other than that minor point, I think you're right. The third parties haven't owned up to Nintendo's new dominance and innovative platforms, or at least, they're not early adopters. I disagree with the idea that Nintendo "learned" from the DS launch that third parties would always **** on them; third parties had been shitting on them since 1996, and I say deservedly so.