Where are the games? 3rd parties are too afraid to make them. They are confused. They're not adjusting. Things have gone... sideways.
Wii is the market leader. An unexpected market leader, so surprising that 3rd parties did not have "big" titles planned for its first year in the market. But in the process of planning new catch-up titles, they're afraid they can't compete with Nintendo's execution and vision in producing titles that embrace the new functions, afraid their old-world core games won't be embraced by Wii's non-known, non-understood non-market. They are afraid to commit to the new "risk".
Sony used to have a market leader. 3rd parties were surprised PS3 is not the champion system that the market would parade and maintain the core gamer audience. 3rd parties did have games planned, some cancelled, many "delayed" in hopes of entering a ripened PS3 installed base. But nearly 1.5 years later, the grass is not greener. The installed base has not caught-up with their "projections". They are afraid to commit their sure-fire "big" projects to the champ of the "old ways". Committing to the fallen king is also a risk.
So now, there'll be even less games than before, leaving 3rd parties "stuck."
But that's all right. The forest fires of the real movers (the market) will burn down the old trees and let the low-laying sproutlings flourish. And it will be obvious which platform the new risk-taking game makers will choose.
The climate is still in transition, so while the old champs, the GTAs/MGS/bangbanggungun, have come out, what's in the line-up afterward? Will there be another 3-4 year wait for the other "real" games? Maybe the market changes have gone deep enough that there aren't any "real" games planned afterward, just "risky" games with an all-new commitment behind them.
Don't worry about the ones who are whining, cuz they'll be washed away and become the new lapsed gamers.