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Originally posted by: Deguello
Pap, I believe you think I went in there with a vial of piss and vinegar, but I assure you I was calm at the utmost. At the very least Ms. Mod could have invited me to a private chat. But instead she left the messenger to be shot by their cultists. And this is the sort of attitude I received. So yes I did cease attempts to bridge relations right there. It's hard to build a bridge when the other side is busy burning it.
I never said that you were mad or went there on a crazy binge. I wasn't there to witness it so I can't say which side is right.
I do believe your story since you have been honest and sincere about it. But to be honest, I am at a point where I have two different stories of the same thing. I have talked to RMC about it and he paints it another way.
Its like in a cartoon or sitcom where one side tells their story and in their version they are the saints and the other party are the demons, while in the other party's version they are the saints and the others are the demons.
Since I wasn't there to see it all I can't say which story has more valid. Not that I don't believe you or anything, but I decided to stay neutral on this because the stories differ greatly from each other.
If it makes you feel any better, I've been defending the site, yes, but its not like I am 100% loyal to them. I don't like some of their users, I don't go to their forums, listen to their podcast or participate in their contests.
I do post the news they put up, but I do it because I am ONLY interested in the story themselves. I now post the link of the original source when I talk about an announcement, and only submitted news like 3 times.
My loyalty lies first and foremost on cap and SB's website, because I've done stuff there for the past 5 years and that's where our friendship started. NWR is second because all of my Wii friends come from NWR.
Everything else I just check the news and reviews and don't bother with their stuff.
Once again, I appreciate that you were sincere and didn't rely on angst or sarcasm to tell your side of the story. I understand the issues better now.
EDIT: Actually, the more I think about it and read your story, the more valid it becomes. In other words, your anger towards the site is valid rather than some angst filled quarrel.
Like Karion said, with the information posted now things are clearer as to why some of the users have a personal beef with the site.
I mean, this isn't like dissing IGN for editorials or NWR because of their reviews. Its something deeper than that, and thanks to the info posted it becomes clear.