I think you're expecting too much from us in that regard. I could sit down here and write a 10 page essay detailing exactly why you suck, with proper footnotes and bibliography and everything, but why the hell would I do that with my time?
You're way too agressive, both in terms of your posting habits and in your desire to find out why we hate your posting habits. My advice to you is to relax, take it easy, and just go with the flow of the forums. Pay attention to the habits of non-despised members here and try to think about what makes them good posters. We can't do this for you; if you want to be a better poster, you're going to need to learn it for yourself.