You completely overlooked everything I said in an attempt to make friend codes look attractive.
You basically made my point for me. The DS, even with it's crappy friend code system, is a HANDHELD that is selling like wildfire. And the service is free. So of course, as odifiend said, it's going to do better than a home console online service that you have to pay for WITH a credit card, and NEED a broadband connection to work with (these are the glaring differences, by the way)...if you look at pure numbers. One thing that absolutely frustrates me with a lot of Nintendo fans is this idea that the Wii and DS are completely interchangeable in EVERY scenario--that it's always ok to speak for one with the other. That is not true, and it definitely isn't true in this case. Yes, they're both online services, but you're kidding yourself if you think the DS isn't more accessible, despite not being out longer. But, being more accessible doesn't always make it better because, feature for feature, Xbox Live slams it. Simple as that.
People play online with the DS but that doesn't mean they LOVE the setup or that Nintendo shouldn't improve it. People play online with DS because the want to play Nintendo handheld games online and are willing to suffer through a terrible system to do it, and right now what I fear is that they're going to use the raw numbers to convince themselves they don't have to improve it. What I fear the most is that they're going tothink that this is a brilliant system for their home console, and I don't think it is. This is console gaming we're talking about--not an experimental handheld. There are higher standards, and when comparing to Xbox360's brilliant Live services, and PS3's impending Home service which is looking to be more innovative than both Xbox Live and the Wii's online by a mile, as far as online infrastructures go (AND it's free and on a system that is costing Sony money to produce, so that blows the "but friend codes are free!" argument out of the water), the Wii won't have an excuse. And with rumors going around that Xbox Live is going to become a completely free service in the future, I just fear that the Wii's online is not going to stand out in any way. Free doesn't have to mean mediocre. And I think calling friend codes "mediocre" is a compliment.
It doesn't matter if you personally don't like certain Live features, but plenty of people do. Plenty of people like features that have been commonplace in free online gaming for years that friend codes restrict. If there's a feature you personally don't like you don't have to use it, but why restrict other people from having access to these features? That's what friend codes do. No matter what side of the fence you sit on, there's no denying that. And that's what I mean when I say Xbox Live deserves the credit, because it strives to give games what they want by offering the basics and then some, and giving you OPTIONS. And Sony, surprisingly, is striving to do the very same thing free of charge. You can't say the same about Nintendo with friend codes.