"Each company has decide who they are willing to frustrate and who they are able to please. Unfortunately for Big Jim, Ian Sane, and heinous, you are on Nintendo's list to please."
Lucky me.

My concern really IS Nintendo and their position in the market. Not my personal satisfaction, even though I am not perfectly content either. I'm ultimately interested in Nintendo's success and where I think they can improve because I am an analytical prick. As pessimistic as I may come across, I have been a big Nintendo fan for almost 20 years, and probably will be for a long time to come. I *care* and that's why I am concerned.
"It seems to me like everything you guys are saying about what Nintendo should do... they already did this generation, and it didn't work."
I don't know if you're including me in that comment. I'm assuming not because I pointed out problems of this generation that have not been done/fixed because most of them didn't happen until this generation. They won't be done/fixed until Nintendo delivers Revolution. My concern is that they not replicate those mistakes. Many of them will be fixed, so I am happy about that. But there is still more to do/show. Until they DO indicate that those problems are fixed, you're gonna have to deal with some of us worriers.

That's the potential downside to releasing information in a slow drip. There's more to learn before I can completely back it up.
"Don't you think maybe they were holding off on online until they could implement it for free without bleeding out their ass?"
Naturally, but that's not exactly what they said at the time. From teasing us with broadband and modem adapters to commenting that they'd be going online every time they were asked for years... to only not deliver until recently? That's a piss poor way to communicate with customers. If you have no product or service in the pipeline, say so. I'd be fine if they had said from the start, "This just doesn't work for us this generation." I would have accepted that and backed them up. Just don't dangle the carrot and not deliver.
"I love Nintendo's games but nobody seems to be giving them a chance, and I'm not convinced it's because they're screwing up. I think it's because for better or worse the market has been stuck in a rut ever since Sony came along and brought their "overwhelming hype sells anything" approach to games."
Nice point. What Nintendo does, they do well. I think our concern, really, is that we don't want Nintendo bullied into obscurity any more. Sure they'll likely be around a long time, but unless they find solutions to fight back they're lessening their chances each generation. Unfortunately, the Sony and MS behemoths can't be ignored. As I said, they don't have to BE Sony or MS to compete. They just have to be relevant. The DS is a solid system. The Rev is shaping up. Let's just see the rest of the plan.
"I'd like to think that we can all agree that we're all hugely excited for the Rev."
Excited about the potential, absolutely.