You didn't read the fine print when you first entered the Funhouse?
something about participation makes you fair game.
blah blah blah
Can't take the heat get out the kitchen
But whatever, it was thread for making humorous porn names and someone played off your screen name and the fact that you are a female. The same way that everyone else's name got used and most of us used our own names to make humorous titles out of. We did way worse on ourselves than the one or two joke names made using yours.
If you just wanna discuss gaming then goto the gaming part of the forum and let that be that. This part of the forum is for joking around about whatever the hell we want to joke around about(as long as it isn't about Politics.... or religion

). If you don't want to be included in that then don't include yourself in it. No one is forcing you into the funhouse.
No matter who you are or what you do in life, people are gonna talk about you. If you don't like it, then do your best to not know about it. It's not like someone is talking your personal business or even referring to you by your real name.
They made a joke, not a personal attack, so try not to get all worked up over it.