Ian, the police is a great answer. I don't know why actualy I don't want to call. It's just lik in the movies, something is going down and you think to yourself "why don't they just call the police befor it gets worse? GOD they are stupid!!"
And im really not sure if she will really act on it or not. I have never once in 2 years I have known her, ever seen a threatening side to her. We were only together for 5 months by the way. But It was pretty scary seeing those words could come from her.
If someone does come around, and tries to get me, after im pummeled I will call the police. Last night we were talking over AIM and thats where she told me all of this stuff. So Just in case I ever needed some proof that she threatend me I saved the entire conversation we had. It really makes her sound kind of evil.
We both work in a really huge public place so that should help me out a bit. And i've been working there for about 3 years, and have made alot of really close friends. For some reason being a super hero makes everyone on your side. I could get anyone behind me and have her fired if she acts upon anything.
UncleBob- I have no trouble telling my business to you guys so here goes. And it may sound alittle biased in my favor, since im telling the story, but I can guarante this is how everything went. During our relationship Miss All Sunday(nick name from One Piece, no real meaning behind it, they just share the same name so I called her that) was very unaffectionate, at work very understandable, but at home it was very disheartening. I constantly kept questioning myself, thinking what was wrong with me why is she acting like this and so on. Not being afraid to talk about problems, I openly bring it up. This happend about 3 times, and I never did get an absolute answer, "it was, I just don't feel like kissing or hugging." And she tells me I think your looking into it way too much. Im like "yeah your probably right." And man I can't believe I put up with it for as long as I did, its tough to go with out a single simple kiss for days at a time, when you have a girl friend and you see her almost every day.
I train in Wu Shu and Stunt Work at my wu shu school. So usualy im there about 4-6 times a week! Wu Shu is a big part of my life, im as passionate about it as I am comic books, and video games(yeah im nerd!) And it has been my ticket into the entertainment industry, its my career. And the worst part about it, is that Miss All Sunday hated the fact that I was there so much. She lives in the Valley, and I live L.A. so you can imagine that that is a nice drive. A full quart of gas back and forth. But yo know what I really liked this girl and it was ok. We could see each other at work almost every day! but it was only Monday nights, tuesday nights, and thursday nights, that I could not hang out with her because of late classes. During the day I would be with her regardless. Sunday and Saturday classes are early in the morning, so the rest of the day was hers. Pluss I skipped every friday class to be with her, since it was pure basics class.
I really wanted her to see what I could do, come down to the school everynow and then, and you know just show a little support. Not once did she ever, and she would never ask me how was it going? Well no, she did say every now and then how was wu shu, but never followed it up with anything. Nothing like "so what did you learn today?" Hurt alot. I braught that issue up to her twice, telling her I didn't feel supported enough. She said ok, and for about a week things got better.
On the flip side she was in some makeup school, and I supported the hell out of her! Her parents hated that she didn't go to normal college or anything, so I made sure she got alot of positive reinforcement. You all now how bad it feels, when you have something very important going on in your life and other people are like "oh thats nice, well see ya later" I like to make people feel at home, comfortable, and important. And I could tell she loved it. I let her give me a bald head, and I was one of her friends test dummies for their final project.
Those were the biggest issues with me. She told me after we broke up she hated being second to wu shu. And you know I was there alot, but I tell ya, every moment I was not there I was with her. We are both characters at our job, and she absolutely hates that I have had it so easy there, and she has to march through thorns to hold her place. So when ever she had a problem she didn't like to talk to me about it, cause she said I sounded like her dad, and because of my situation I could never understand. Made me feel like CRAP!!! We would go out with friends from work about 2 or 3 times a week and eat somewhere. Now for me, thats a no no, its just not practicle for me to eat out that much. It really really adds up. And 3 times out of the entire relationship. I say "man, I gotta stop eating out so much, its really adding up" and by the 3rd time she gets super pissed saying "Look who talking mister Spider-Man, you make 3 times as much as us and your complaining, what about us?..." And I couldn't believe it. I in no way meant what she was making it out to be. It was very hard to reason with her, she was very stubborn.
Well there is defenitly more but those were issues that had things heating up. Im comfortable enough to say this, she had me tear up a couple times. Im an emotional mess like that. Now I repeatedly tried to talk these issues out, and it was soo difficult! There was just no winning for me. Friends would say "Matthew, Ireally don't think shes the right girl for you" but I just knew I could change her. Maybe if she played video games it would have balanced everything out.
So I finally broke up with her, at work, and fast. I told her I can't beat around the bush or I will be at this for days. I told her she made me feel like crap, and we are just going to drive each other crazy. If we can't solve our problems It's best that we split up.
There you have it.
Oh and I decided to carry around one of my chain wips. Very small folded up, doesn't get in the way. And not illegal, especialy for a wu shu coach! well I teach only level 1 but im a coach non the less.
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