Nah, not getting that impression from you in particular. Clearly everyone had different expectations for the game and many people won't be satisfied with the outcome simply because what they were expecting was not done in favor of something else. The SSE seems to be a big sticking point for almost everyone, and I whole-heartedly agree that it was a waste of resources. What those resources would've been able to do had they not been on the SSE is all conjecture, but it is convenient to say that they would've worked on x item that you had in mind, even though that might not have been the case.
The one thing that is pretty clear though is that, regardless there is still alot to like in Brawl, and having sticking points when the game is in it's 3rd iteration is inevitable. Look at the Mario or Zelda series. They get nitpicked to hell at this point because expectations are across the board. Everyone wants something different, and when each progressive iteration doesn't contain what they wanted, they will bitch harder and harder. Not a problem with me, it is the nature of the beast, however, everyone needs to realize, that is the point of having a forum discussion.