Author Topic: I Need Advice (Read 6246 times)

Mysticspike · « **on:** February 25, 2007, 11:30:10 AM »

this is a serious topic.
there is this girl i have been checking out lately. she is shy, and gorgius.
i need to ask her out but im a coward and dont know how. i want to get to know her before i make to big a move, but have basically never talked to her. she might know who i am, but doesn't know me at all. i need to know how to talk to her and get to know her.
please just give me advice on hooking up.
remember, i'm not in collage yet so picking to sit next to her is not an option since we are assigned seats.
please help.

S-U-P-E-R · « **Reply #1 on:** February 25, 2007, 11:45:33 AM »

you should buy her a gift certificate from hot topic. Say you found it or somebody gave it to you and you don't shop there, or whatever. You might actually find that buying that at the checkout and fumbling for your change is also a great way to 'accidentally' touch a girl's hand.

KnowsNothing · « **Reply #2 on:** February 25, 2007, 11:47:08 AM »

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remember, i'm not in collage yet so picking to sit next to her is not an option since we are assigned seats.

It's college mmkay. If you can't spell college right your future looks bleak.

Here's my advice: Find someone else. If you really cared about this girl you wouldn't want her to have to suffer the agony of talking to you.

vudu · « **Reply #3 on:** February 25, 2007, 11:48:24 AM »

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i need to know how to talk to her and get to know her.

Be yourself.

Mysticspike · « **Reply #4 on:** February 25, 2007, 11:48:48 AM »

i might be kind of wierd walking right up to her and just giving her that since she might not even know me at all. i have one class w/ her but she sits across the room...hmmm

You · « **Reply #5 on:** February 25, 2007, 11:49:09 AM »

Maybe he meant cutting her up in his garage and securing her insides to the wall with a nailgun

Mysticspike · « **Reply #6 on:** February 25, 2007, 11:49:27 AM »

by the way i was just talking to super.

Mario · « **Reply #7 on:** February 25, 2007, 11:55:05 AM »

show her this thread and she's see how much you care

Mysticspike · « **Reply #8 on:** February 25, 2007, 11:57:38 AM »

i doubt shell even look here if i tell her about it. she might be like creeped out. the thing i need is to get to know her. as in like a friend. then maybe date or whatever

IceCold · « **Reply #9 on:** February 25, 2007, 11:58:12 AM »

Ah ha! So you're JonLeung's alt account.

Hmm, always thought that was couchmonkey.

Mysticspike · « **Reply #10 on:** February 25, 2007, 11:59:54 AM »

please! i thought we were past this! please don't bring it up again. please!

segagamer12 · « **Reply #11 on:** February 25, 2007, 12:53:38 PM »

spike, buddy, kid, this is not the best place for girl advice. all you need to know is be cool and dont get nervous. be yourself and, oh wait thats not what they tought in school for scounrals, liue thats it just lie then lie somemore thats it yeah.

Mysticspike · « **Reply #12 on:** February 25, 2007, 02:01:12 PM »

general chat is general chat. this is general chat if you ask me, and these guys seem to know what they're talking about

ShyGuy · « **Reply #13 on:** February 25, 2007, 02:37:13 PM »

Date ten other girls before you make your move on her. Then you will be ready.

Shift Key · « **Reply #14 on:** February 25, 2007, 07:24:01 PM »

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Originally posted by: ShyGuy
Date ten other girls before you make your move on here. Then you will be ready.

This actually speaks volumes of truth. Like the proverb, you have to learn to walk before you can run.

So strike up conversations with people that you don't know. It doesn't have to be about important stuff, hell I was talking to a guy after he told me to "get to bed earlier" after he saw me yawning out on the street today. It doesn't have to be long conversations either. Inane chatter like that does wonder for your social skills. So instead of thinking about talking to her straight off, talk to your neighbour in class tomorrow or someone you don't know that well at lunch.

Mysticspike · « **Reply #15 on:** February 26, 2007, 05:08:42 PM »

sounds good... play it by ear and make her realize im open.
i guess just wait for the right moment and start a conversation w/ someone.

Mysticspike · « **Reply #16 on:** February 27, 2007, 10:27:20 AM »

this post is no more...

IceCold · « **Reply #17 on:** February 27, 2007, 02:15:48 PM »

Damn stalkers.

Mysticspike · « **Reply #18 on:** February 27, 2007, 04:38:33 PM »

i just wanted u ta know wat she looked like, but i probably should remove it

nickmitch · « **Reply #19 on:** February 27, 2007, 06:07:59 PM »

Try being polite and making a few jokes (not AT her) to get her attention. Then strike up a conversation about something stupid, to be funny about it. I think you could handle it from there. But talking to her about class (like asking about homework) during lunch should get that foot in the door.

ShyGuy · « **Reply #20 on:** February 27, 2007, 07:33:58 PM »

If you are a dupe account of one the NWR regulars, the fact that you are stalking a sixteen year old girl gets even creepier. Wandering

Shift Key · « **Reply #21 on:** February 27, 2007, 08:04:45 PM »

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Originally posted by: ShyGuy
If you are a dupe account of one the NWR regulars, the fact that you are stalking a sixteen year old girl gets even creepier. Wandering

Nah, its not him (Wandering couldn't keep up the ruse). I'm working on the source, but in the mean time threads like Random are too enjoyable!

Mysticspike · « **Reply #22 on:** March 01, 2007, 03:53:16 PM »

Mysticspike · « **Reply #23 on:** March 01, 2007, 03:54:08 PM »

Originally posted by: mysticspike

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Originally posted by: ShyGuy
If you are a dupe account of one the NWR regulars, the fact that you are stalking a sixteen year old girl gets even creepier. Wandering

no more about the dupe accounts. i'm not one and thats final. furthermore, shes not sixteen, she just put that so people wouldn't know her real age, which i wont say, and i am the same age as her, im in her grade im not some creep guy so back off

and don't think im too stupid to miss that spoiler

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