To be fair, I said they
feel obligated.
It begins and ends with the parents. Nintendo can put all of these roadblocks on their own platform, but unsupervised and unbridled internet access on devices Nintendo has no control over like a PC or smartphone supplants Nintendo's security measures quite easily (yes, I've seen some 7-8 year olds with smartphones). For parents who actually give a ****, they'll set the parental controls, they'll read the fine print, and even check up on what their kids are doing. All good things. They don't need Nintendo to be their watchdog though, admittedly, it's nice to have that extra measure in place. Alternatively, there are parents who don't give a ****, don't set the parents controls, and don't pay attention to anything until something bad happens at which point they look to see who they can transfer the blame to. Nintendo can't stop negligence. Something like Friend Codes is like an impenetrable fortress with a revolving door and a bright neon sign.
These problems aren't running rampant on competing platforms so I have to wonder if Nintendo sees a problem or if they're inventing a solution for a problem that doen't exist or is at least far less severe. Granted, the age of PS3/360 users tend to skew older, but younger players still exist on those consoles. For all the dipshit kids who all claim to have had sex with my mother and apparently are aware of my supposed latent homosexuality, I wonder what the **** they're doing even playing these games anyway. Who is watching them? No one. That's why Nintendo's safety measures only serve to annoy the people it shouldn't be annoying. For people who take safety seriously, they don't
need these measures though, again, certainly nice to have. For the people who don't, the extra measures are undermined by their own negligence and irresponsibility.
No, it should be the other way around. It should be activated unless you are a parent and deactivate it.
I agree. If it's not already activated, I feel like fewer people are going to activate it.
I feel like the best way to balance accessibility and safety is by providing more specific options and requiring parental approval through password protection for literally everything. And they should all be set to the highest security setting by default. Nintendo's online platform should seem like it resembles the current set-up prior to toggling the options. Examples:
1. Voicechat: on/off/friends only
2. Display online ID: on/off/friends only
3. Accept friend request: with password/without password
4. Accept messages: on/off/friends only/with permission
And so on. They can even get even more specific than that. It still won't stop negligence because nothing can unless one makes the conscious effort to start caring, but it's there for everyone who wants it to be there and can be shut off for everyone else.