At what point would it become worthwhile for you to make the change? If your co-worker was offended by it? What about your good friend? Your best friend? Your girlfriend?
i think the better question is at what point would it become worthwhile for the offended party to get over it. racism exists for 2 reasons. the first is people are racist... and the second is people get offended by words. when you take the power away from the racist they have nothing on you... but when you give the power to the racists than they have every thing on you.
i grew up a white fat kid in detroit. i was the minority, i got crap handed to me all the time.. and it bothered me when i was 12. im 30 now and i understand that when i get called fat ass or cracker/honkey/ whatever that there trying to gain power on me. i wont let them. and i am doing so much better for it now cause i took the power away... i don't let it bother me.
if the average person (in a minority group) would just look at how stupid a slur is and ask themselves why it bothers them they would probably laugh at themselves for being so stupid for years.
let me pose this question for the board... how many people here are a minority... and i don't mean not white... i just mean the only women in an office or the only white kid on your block or the only asian (or if you would rather ntsc-j) guy in school. and how do these words affect you. we have had a lot of discussion from what would seem the "majority" but nothing from the minority.