What's the best wedding food you've ever had? You can talk about more than one thing, since I'm no soup nazi.
I have to say that my favorite was probably some meatballs my sister just had at her wedding. I love meatball subs, and these were like 20x better than the norm, even though there wasn't bread.
I don't prefer chocolate, but I have to say that the best I've seen cake-wise, was a nearly pure-chocolate groom's cake. It had fudge cubes piled on top, with chocolate frosting, and the cake itself was chocolate too. At the reception, the caterer wouldn't take it outside until right before it was cut for fear of melting it, which shows you how much chocolate was on this cake. If I can find a picture of it, I think I'll link it up here.