I first started playing video games because—surprise, my parents wanted me to. My uncle bought this neat little toy called the Nintendo Entertainment System, and as a wee tyke I had a blast blasting ducks with the Light Zapper. I'm sure you heard about this all from Kairon already: we would take turns making maps for Legend of Zelda.
So really, video games were, for me, a way to socialize, and they still are... which is why it's sad to see the state of online gaming being what it is today, with companies moving away from dedicated servers and families being so divided over this entertainment format. Then again, it's been a while since I've been able to engage with my own parents over video games long before all this started happening... hm...
Nowadays I see games kind of like how some people see books; it's how we digest mythology and ideas, and how we seek to communicate them. It's a frustrating inspiration, because like many moviegoers we wonder "Why don't they talk about these issues?" and yet complain when we're forced to watch Crash or Birth or Babel because the Academy Awards said so. And then there's a City Of God and we're like "Okay, maybe we can do this!" It'll be fun watching, if not being a part of, the evolution of games as a cultural and intellectual medium. Everyone has a Great American Novel in them, everyone has something to say or a story to tell... why not a Great American Video Game?