Matt said it. Right there, the literary value of the term has been expressed. I see your point of trying to avoid flame wars, but the flamers will keep flaming with other words. The problem is when someone like myself calls it that, not in a teasing way, and then gets flamed by fourteen crazy Nintendo zombies.
I know you can censor any word you choose, but I wish you would look at the situation as any court of law would. If it is proven that a work contains within any literary, scientific, artistic, historical, or mathematic value that the work is completly legal. Trust me, I know my porn history. Don't be Hitler and burn words just because the sword in the mouth is stronger than the one in the fist.