TJ - I have to side with oohhboy. And, to top it all of, you never even attempted an apology (and still seem to be sticking with whatever twisted version of the story you believe happened) regarding the individual that you made the completely disgusting comments about.
You're not just a horrible poster. You're a horrible person. Anyone who says that kind of crap - then defends it, even after being shown how they were wrong - really just isn't worth it.