Kid, listen to me, read what I said. I said it was my choice to pay that much. I could very easily give up paying and I could still play, this is a choice for me.
Do I know how much it costs to maintane servers? Obviously a lot more than you do. Having run two servers for my own use for about a year now, I am very familiar with the amount of bandwith required to maintane about 30 people playing a game with a decent frame rate.
The funny thing about the live servers you keep raving about is that for more than a few of the games its running p2p, the only thing connecting the servers is the user interface. Try it sometime. But that wasn't my point. My point is that if I am going to have to pay for a service straight out, and still have to pay for the games that truely require servers (PSO) I don't feel like playing.
One more thing, have you ever even heard of Punkbuster? There are so few cheaters its not even funny. Even if there were having rcon (remote console) I can kick whoever I feel is cheating, or ban them if they persist. Is it a hassle? Not really, in fact I find humorous to kick people constantly. How about closed battle.net? There is some hacking that gets through, there is in reality next to nothing.
BTW,
www.teamspeak.org www.ventrilo.com, VoIP. Works fine for me, or is the fact that it is seperate and far more advanced a turn off for you?
One more thing, How am I pathetic? I have been playing online games longer than you have known what online means? How does this work?